• Published May 16, 2024
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Supporting Working Parents: 5 Ways Organizations Can Support Parenting & Leadership

Organizational leaders have a responsibility to create work environments where others can thrive. It starts with supporting working parents and acknowledging the juggle between caregiving and leadership responsibilities.
Published May 16, 2024
Working parents taking picture while drawing with children modeling parenting and leadership and how important it is for organizations supporting working parents

Why Organizations Should Prioritize a Family-Friendly Approach to Help Working Parents

For years, many caregivers sought to achieve a “balance” that allowed their work responsibilities and family demands to peacefully coexist. Surely, many felt, it must be possible to excel in or, at the very least, feel satisfied with both realms.

Commonly touted solutions often suggested simple fixes to this complex problem: if only they could define boundaries, communicate more effectively, or find the right support, then work-life balance would naturally fall into place.

But then COVID hit, and the collision of work and home life created a tipping point. The pandemic’s shift to homeschooling and virtual work led many working parents — especially women — to take a step back in their careers, or to leave the workforce entirely. Exhausted caregivers left their jobs in record numbers, and organizations are still feeling the effects today.

While women’s employment numbers have since bounced back to pre-pandemic levels, senior organizational leaders continue to grapple with how to attract, develop, and retain women leaders (and working parents or other caregivers in general).

Physical offices have reopened, but many employees — both with and without children — remain somewhat hesitant about returning to work fully in person.

For those with caregiving responsibilities whose jobs can be done from home, most say that they want to continue working remotely in the future. A study from the Pew Research Center reveals that 71% of employees who work from home at least some of the time say doing so helps them balance work with their personal life.

Increased flexibility in the workplace comes as a long-awaited relief for working parents who struggled even before the pandemic to juggle both parenting and leadership responsibilities.

Is the idea of “balance” more attainable at last?

Organizations Must Lead the Way to Support Caregiving & Leadership Responsibilities

Certainly, flexible and remote work arrangements help, but the golden notion of “balance” probably still feels beyond reach for many caregivers and working parents, and for good reason: we consider work-life “balance” to be a faulty metaphor.

It’s simply not possible for parents and caregivers to be fully present for their employers and their families all the time, while also taking care of their own health and wellbeing.

And the truth is, caregivers shouldn’t be forced to seek this equilibrium without organizational support.

If your organization is reconsidering how it’s supporting working parents and caregivers, you’ll want to ensure that you’re creating an environment where all your employees can thrive by offering inclusive family leave policies, permanent hybrid and remote work options, and ample equitable growth and development opportunities.

For companies to support working parents and attract and retain top talent, they must be willing to acknowledge the juggle between parenting and leadership responsibilities, connecting leadership and employee wellbeing. It starts with managers who can create environments where others thrive — reducing stress and burnout while increasing morale and productivity, yielding people who thrive and a workforce that is flourishing. ​​

Here are some specific actions that organizations can take to signal they’re serious about supporting working parents — and all caregivers.

Supporting Working Parents, Caregivers & All Employees: 5 Tips

Specific Actions That Organizational Leaders Can Take

1. Offer equitable and inclusive family leave policies.

Workers now have more bargaining power. Companies don’t want to lose talent, so employees can often enact change by calling attention to archaic and inequitable leave policies, courageously asking for the support they need from their organizations.

While these conversations are useful, we still believe the onus and impetus to adopt more inclusive leave policies should fall on employers, not on employees.

Organizations are charged first with recognizing that families come in all shapes and sizes. Statistics show that the traditional stereotypical idea of the nuclear family — 2 married, heterosexual parents of the same race with 2 biological children — has become increasingly obsolete.

To increase equity, acknowledge diversity, and build inclusion into your organization’s policies around time off from work, “maternity leave policies should be reframed as parental leave — or even better, caretaker or family leave policies — to reflect an expanded definition of caregiving. Providing care for a family member isn’t limited to biological mothers and new babies, and caregiving for children often includes fathers, adoptive parents, spouses or partners, etc.

Inclusive leave policies should also cover an employee taking time off work to care for any family member — including aging parents, sick partners, adolescent children, those with special needs, etc.

And further, managers should normalize actually using the leave to focus on childcare or other types of caregiving. Simply renaming your maternity leave policy to a “parental leave” policy is not enough; senior leaders should actively encourage new fathers and domestic partners to take the available leave (and model this behavior themselves where applicable). This signals that your organization is serious about enabling employees to bring their whole selves to work and helps to combat ingrained stigmas and societal expectations that a mother’s role as caretaker is more essential than a father’s.

When organizations offer inclusive family leave policies, they’re better able to compete for talent and retain strong performers. That’s why both company language and culture should be explicitly and intentionally inclusive, so that taking time away from work to care for a family member seems (and actually is) equally accessible.

2. Be a champion for flexibility by extending it to all employees.

Flexible work policies aren’t effective (and can actually be quite harmful) when they’re only available to a select group, or in specific scenarios. While talent managers generally acknowledge that new working parents just returning from leave might need flexibility in their work schedules, it’s important to specify and remind your employees that flexibility is available to everyone.

According to research, people without children sometimes feel they’re expected to pick up the slack at work when colleagues with children are granted increased flexibility. This dynamic not only inequitably burdens employees without children, it also creates an environment that positions flexibility as an organizational weakness instead of a strength. But the opposite is actually true.

During the pandemic, many employers realized that they don’t have to trade flexibility for productivity. On the contrary, studies revealed that productivity actually increased as many employees shifted to remote work. So don’t assume that, post-COVID, your organization should have everyone came into the office all the time, or resume the same work arrangements as before.

Design company policies around flexibility, including remote and hybrid work options, with a focus on equity, as well as diversity and inclusion. Offer compassion and flexibility for caretaking of all kinds. Regardless of whether they have children, employees who have the freedom and flexibility to schedule when and where they work can be more productive with the time they have.

Provide as much autonomy as possible in determining work schedules and locations. You’ll improve employee retention post-pandemic with flexible work arrangements that enable a greater sense of control and lead to more fulfilled, engaged, and loyal employees.

3. Support Employee Resource Groups.

Also known as “affinity groups” or “business networking groups,” employee resource groups are formed by employees who share a common social identity characteristic, such as ethnicity or gender. Within these informal groups, members provide one another with support, career development, and professional networking.

During the pandemic, Employee Resource Groups (ERGs) for caregivers gained popularity, as working parents and others struggling with balancing family or parenting and leadership challenges found they needed a network for support and advice. Your organization can help ERGs become even more impactful through your support. Here are a few ideas:

  • Assist the ERG in achieving specific goals; for example, connecting them with other working parents or caregivers throughout the organization. ERGs are most effective when they’re diverse and inclusive of biological, adoptive, and LGBTQ+ parents.
  • Share the ERG’s goals and immediate wins with your executive leadership team to encourage senior-level sponsorship and engagement.
  • Connect members with resources and learning opportunities.

4. Offer flexible opportunities for leadership development.

When working parents and other caregivers are feeling challenged by work-life conflict, leadership development can give them new skillsets and mindsets to adapt and show up in the ways they’d like to — both at work and at home.

For example, our flagship Leadership Development Program (LDP)® introduces participants to the idea of a button with 4 holes as a symbol for holistic leadership. The button helps participants remember that leaders are most effective when they understand how the 4 elements of their lives — self, family, career, and community — are woven together in an interconnected way, working in tandem to strengthen their leadership and enrich their lives.

Other training opportunities that incorporate vertical development can be especially helpful for employees trying to juggle parenting and leadership responsibilities, because it helps them grow through heat experiences and walks them through the process of reconciling colliding perspectives.

Importantly, for any type of professional development to offer genuine benefit to the employee and to avoid overwhelming their already full schedules, there must be adequate “air cover” from the organization. Acknowledge training as an important business priority, and provide participants with the space and time to focus on their development, as well as to integrate the learnings into their daily routines.

Working parents and other types of caregivers need options for how they engage in leadership development opportunities, including the format that best fits their needs. Whether it’s face-to-face training, virtual development programs, asynchronous learning, or a combination of formats, providing flexible development opportunities in a variety of modalities will help your employees balance parenting and leadership demands, while improving engagement and retention of your talent.

5. Support employees who choose to “power down” and stay the course.

Some caregivers, particularly women, may choose or be forced to step away from their careers entirely for a period of time to focus on child-rearing or other family needs. This was common before the pandemic, and data shows that COVID accelerated the trend, as it disproportionally impacted women, causing many more to step back from their careers or leave the workforce entirely.

When an employee expresses a desire to step back, talent managers and leaders within organizations can support this decision and also offer an alternative. Parents may not need to leave their organizations entirely, if they can adjust the demands of their roles.

Kick Some GlassLearn 10 specific tips for juggling parenting and leadership in our book, Kick Some Glass: 10 Ways Women Succeed at Work. Co-authors Jennifer Martineau and Portia Mount explore the “power down” alternative for mothers to accommodate childbirth and child-rearing, balancing caregiving and career.

The “power down” advice is widely applicable as a way of supporting working parents and caregivers in general. Organizations can support employees by providing opportunities to reduce their hours if needed and enabling them to stay connected through professional networks.

To ensure caregivers avoid losing momentum in their careers when doing this, talent managers should have candid conversations about what the “powered down” period will look like, when it might end or be reviewed, and how they can support working parents or caregivers when they do ease back into work.

Organizations can also pair younger employees with more senior mentors and sponsors who are willing to provide guidance and support, as well as advocate on their behalf.

While mentoring at work is beneficial for all employees, such programs can be especially critical in supporting and retaining talented women leaders. Learn more about how and why sponsoring and mentoring women leaders is so important.

Help Caregivers Bring Their Whole Selves to Parenting & Leadership

While many companies around the world have publicly made claims about supporting working parents and have issued diversity & inclusion statements in the past few years, many have not followed through and lack measures that enable organizational accountability for equity, diversity, and inclusion when it comes to actually changing their policies, processes, and culture.

To show your internal and external stakeholders that you’re genuinely committed to making real and sustainable change, your organization must evaluate your current practices and make upgrades where necessary — including addressing outdated leave policies to better support those struggling with caregiving, parenting, leadership, and workplace responsibilities.

Properly supported working parents and other caregivers will become better, healthier leaders at work, at home, and within their communities — leading to positive impact for your organization that’s much greater than an annual retention report might reveal.

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Marian Ruderman
Marian Ruderman, PhD
Honorary Senior Fellow

With over 30 years of experience in the field of leadership development and over 80 publications, Marian is widely regarded as a thought leader in the field. Her particular areas of expertise include the career development of women, work-life integration, the intersection of voice and leadership recognition, and the role of well-being in leadership development. She has worked with a diverse array of colleagues and clients from around the globe conducting both original research and bringing into CCL the best of what the larger field of leadership scholarship has to offer.

With over 30 years of experience in the field of leadership development and over 80 publications, Marian is widely regarded as a thought leader in the field. Her particular areas of expertise include the career development of women, work-life integration, the intersection of voice and leadership recognition, and the role of well-being in leadership development. She has worked with a diverse array of colleagues and clients from around the globe conducting both original research and bringing into CCL the best of what the larger field of leadership scholarship has to offer.

Cathleen Clerkin
Cathleen Clerkin, PhD
Former Strategic Research Manager

Cathleen is the co-author of Resilience That Works: Eight Practices for Leadership and Life. A scientist, writer, speaker, and team leader, Cathleen has a PhD and MS in Psychology from the University of Michigan, and a BS in Psychology from the University of California, Berkeley.

Cathleen is the co-author of Resilience That Works: Eight Practices for Leadership and Life. A scientist, writer, speaker, and team leader, Cathleen has a PhD and MS in Psychology from the University of Michigan, and a BS in Psychology from the University of California, Berkeley.

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